Tag: Faith

  • WHERE IS YOUR FOCUS – How Do You Handle Regret?


    A CHRISTIAN MESSAGE

    Pastor, Journalist, Author


    PREAMBLE

    • Do you ever get discouraged when you focus on your life and wonder just what God has in store for you?
    • Do you ever get mad at God when you think you’ve been left behind and there’s more to life than what you have?
    • Do you ever believe, if even for a moment, that someone else is living the life that should be yours?

    If you answer “yes” to any of those questions, or even if you’re not sure what your answer is, then today’s message is for you.

    Fasten your pew belts, church. We’re about to take a ride into one of God’s most enduring and encouraging promises.


    MESSAGE

    1. LIFE’S DISAPPOINTMENTS

    LIFE DOESN’T ALWAYS work out the way we want it to, does it? 

    We pray for something, dream about, prepare for it … and, often, our dream doesn’t materialize; or when it does… whether it’s our graduation, or marriage, or a great job, or a bigger house, or a new car … we find the novelty, the excitement, the thrill dies quickly.

    Or, we find we miss a cue. We fail to take advantage of the opportunities life brings us, or we make the wrong choices, or we labor in our own delusion for years, thinking we’re on the right track, only to wake up one day and regret the path taken. 

    You know these expressions:

    2. WHAT IT MEANS

    WHAT IT ALL means is this: We humans are apt to live much of our lives mired in regret. For those of us who are more discerning, we draw comfort and inspiration from the Bible, where the Apostle Paul, addressing this issue, declared:

    LIFE LESSONS: (Spoiler Alert: Only the 3rd one works)

    1. Get Back Up and Try Harder
    2. Take Stock of the Situation and Adjust
    3. Care for Our Soul – Find Our Peace and Guidance in God.

    1. GET BACK UP

    IN MY OWN LIFE, I have experienced many of life’s challenges; and when I’ve failed, I try to rescue myself and push on.

    That helps to some extent, doesn’t it? It certainly gets us moving again, and that’s a good thing; but it’s limited in its utility. Why? Because our self-help strategies at best are a temporary solution to what could be a long-term or permanent situation. 

    Personal Example – Marriage #1 

    • Lack of wisdom (could not identify our difficulties)
    • Lack of spiritual bond (no common core)
    • Lack of family support (our families opposed the marriage).

    There’s a maxim, credited to Albert Einstein, that “Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result.” 

    Getting back up and trying harder doesn’t change the situation; it only makes us more determined to try the same solution, expecting a better outcome. Image of trying to break open a stuck door.<

    2. TAKE STOCK

    TAKING STOCK MEANS looking for a better solution. Engaging our minds. This actually is an improvement over Trying Harder because at least we are engaging our mind, not just our will. 

    Getting back up and trying harder can be repeated ad nauseam before we realize that doing the same thing leads to the same end. So, eventually, we look for a better solution. When there’s growth, it comes when— or if — we look *inward* for a solution, instead of *outward.*

    Personal Example – Marriage #2

    • Lack of shared experience (different life histories)
    • Lack of shared expectations (which one of us was to make us happy)
    • Lack of purpose (no children, no shared house, no clear vision, no spiritual core).

    Admittedly, these are “big ticket” items. Marriage decisions impact our lives for years as well as the lives of our children and, therefore, of our grandchildren. Get it wrong, and you can mess up a bunch of lives for a long time, even generations.

    If we focus solely on ourselves (our needs, our wants, our desires), we continue to overlook the bigger picture. What is going on here and why? If we focus on God, then we have a source we can go to for understanding and for comfort.

    At this point in my life that I am describing, I focused solely on myself and my wants. God had not entered the picture. [Well, actually, He had, but I wasn’t aware of it yet.]

    When I faced my second divorce, and afterwards a series of aborted relationships, some of which (I thought at the time) could have led to marriage, it slowly dawned on me that there was a common element harming each of those relationships … ME! 

    I was the common element. In short, I was the problem. I wasn’t the only problem, but I was the only problem I could fix. As the comic strip character Pogo said, “We have met the enemy, and he is us!”

    No matter how much I wanted to blame someone else, this was my problem. I was a contributing factor, and it was my responsibility to fix it. My character, who I was inside, was broken and needed healing. Until I recognized that and began to deal with it, I would never heal.

    >Taking stock of our lives is an improvement, for sure, over trying harder because it requires us to begin thinking about why our lives aren’t turning out the way we want them to. Taking stock becomes more valuable as a fix-it tool if we are willing to look at ourselves — to look inward — as the possible problem.

    >However, it still doesn’t resolve our difficulties unless we’re willing to get help from an outside source. We can’t do this all by ourselves.<

    So, when trying harder doesn’t work, and taking stock of the situation doesn’t include all of the relevant elements (like our own involvement), then we need a whole attitude adjustment. 

    This is what I came to see. When we can accept that we might be culpable for our own mistakes, our own faulty judgment, then we can begin to make necessary changes that could lead to a different, and better, outcome. 

    It can be discouraging to realize your own culpability, but I believe it’s the first step we can take to improve our situations. We can’t change other people, and we might have limited ability to change our environment, but we have a whole host of possibilities at our command if we focus on changing ourselves.

    That brings us to our third point:

    3. CARE FOR YOUR SOUL

    I BELIEVE GOD gives us that grace so we can take the steps necessary to make change. One of those steps we take could lead us directly to God’s throne – which most likely is His intent. 

    What does it mean to “fix” something? How do you know what’s broken and needs fixing? Where do you go for the answers? Who can you trust? 

    We easily can get stuck. Some people get stuck at the *try harder* phase, while I – and others like me – can park for years on the *take stock* phase, blaming everyone and everything but ourselves, rolling different ideas over and over, while failing to find the right key — the one that unlocks the door.

    All of those who are unwilling to open their lives to the Lord’s hand will find diversions to deaden their pain: overwork, entertainment, exercise, gambling, substance abuse, adultery — each of which carries its own penalty. Each one of them causes harm to the person physically or emotionally or financially, yet we hold onto our “fix.”

    When, finally, we are willing to look inward, to look at ourselves, at what we bring to the equation, we can — in humility — begin to find workable answers. 

    But since we’re on our third point — caring for our soul — we need to emphasize that *soul care* requires a personal relationship with the Lord. We cannot do that on our own. 

    Finding answers does not necessarily mean fixing or changing our situation; at least not right away. It might be limited to just fixing the way we react to a situation. Do we live in bitterness? Or do we live in God’s grace?

    The Bible tells us not to blame God for our circumstances. He is not the cause of our problems, but He offers to be the solution. 

    He never promised us we would never suffer; He promised only that (1) He would suffer alongside us and (2) In the end, if we believe, our future will be in Heaven with Him.

    God is more interested in our eternal state than He is in our temporal state, even though we, in our human frailty, mostly focus on the temporal.

    • “In all this, Job did not sin or charge God with wrongdoing.” Job 1:22 BSB
    • “I have said these things to you, that in me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world.” John 16:33 ESV
    • We know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose.” Romans 8:28 NKJV

    Just like a picture puzzle, there’s only one piece in the box that will satisfy the demands of that empty space you’re looking at. 

    Only one.

    3. RECOGNIZING SOLUTIONS

    GOD CAN BE so good to us. In my case, His goodness led to yet a third marriage, but this time to a born-again Christian. This was – and is – a grace note to my life. 

    Personal Example – Marriage #3

    God did not have to restore my home life to include a wife. A good wife was not part of God’s promise to me for some accomplishment on my part, although she certainly is a bonus prize.

    Also, God did not present this woman to me, much as eons earlier He had presented Eve to Adam, until after I had made two important life changes:

    • (1) I accepted Jesus as my Lord and Savior, and
    • (2) I humbly told the Lord I would accept His plan for my life, even if His plan did not include remarriage.

    Within hours after I made that prayer, God brought that woman to my attention.

    I never really fixed anything for more than a brief time until I examined my soul.

    I FOUND THE ANSWERS TO MY QUESTIONS IN THE ONLY PLACE WHERE I COULD FIND ANSWERS: JESUS CHRIST.

    Don’t say “That’s just Christian Speak.” They always go there. No, folks, this is real. This is the real deal. Jesus Christ is the Answer to life’s baffling questions.

    >Coming to faith in Jesus Christ was not an easy process for me, nor is it, really, for anyone because we’re called to submit our wills and our lives to Someone else. That can be very uncomfortable.<

    That goes against our grain of self-determination. 

    • We cling to that Free Will God gave us. 
    • We don’t want to let go, even when letting go and letting God will lead us to a much better place than we can make on our own. 
    • Even when we know it will, we’re often reluctant to trust God and take that fist step.

    The Bible gives us encouragement and a warning:

    • ENCOURAGEMENT: “I am the vine; you are the branches. The one who remains in me and I in him produces much fruit, because you can do nothing without me.” – John 15:5 CSB
    • WARNING“The prudent see danger and take refuge, but the simple keep going and pay the penalty. – Proverbs 27:12 NIV 

    The actual steps are simple … yet, unfortunately, so difficult to accept.

    • Admit you’re a sinner, 
    • Accept that Jesus is THE GOD MAN and that He lived a perfect life and died a painful death to atone for your sins, and 
    • Then receive Him into your heart to be both your Savior and Lord.

    Now, once we’ve come to accept the Lord Jesus as the master and ruler of our lives, then the real joy of living begins … because:

    • We are called as His disciples and followers to be on mission.
    • We are called to tell others what God has done for us.

    4. GOD’S MARVELOUS PROMISE

    HOW DO WE do that? How do we live on mission for others?

    These are three things you can do, and I’m preaching to myself here, too:

    1. We can pray for others – is there anyone you are called to pray for?
    2. We can smile and be pleasant — are you a pleasant person to be around?
    3. We can befriend them – do you routinely consider the needs of others?

    Our church says we ought to live out our lives in such a manner that we earn the right to tell others about Jesus. Our lives are our first message to the world.

    Let’s be clear: Jesus already gave us the right to tell others about Him when we were saved and He commissioned us. With that behind us, we must live out the Gospel message so that our words will be in synch with our actions.

    While humbling ourselves to accept Jesus can be difficult — we don’t like giving up control — we’ll never regret coming to faith, but we will regret not having come to faith sooner. The Bible clearly states the terrible fate that awaits those who never come to faith. Pride leads to destruction.

    Pride is …

    • The original sin
    • The great crippler.

    LET’S RECAP THIS:

    1. Trying harder doesn’t work because it yields the same result.
    2. Taking stock is a step toward improvement because we’re starting to think about our situation, but its utility depends on our analyzing all the important variables – including those pointing back to ourselves. In the end, it still depends on self-improvement, which is limited in its utility.
    3. Surrendering our lives to the Author of life is the saving grace because now we’re “teachable” and under the tutelage of the Master. It’s the only solution that works. 

    CONCLUDING SCRIPTURE:

    SALVATION IS THE GREAT HOPE. 

    THAT HOPE IS WHAT GIVES US JOY, COMFORT, AND PEACE IN THIS WORLD.

    FINAL WORD

    Jesus’ grace is sufficient even when our faith is weak.

    1. There is no need to despair. 
    2. There is no need to fear, nor be tormented by regrets, or constant wishful thinking. 
    3. Believe in Him. He always tells us that He is the answer to life’s questions.

    This is a lesson for me to learn, too. Like many of you, I struggle with regret. 

    1. But whenever I focus on God – not on myself but on God – then my regrets float away, like a mist of smoke. 
    2. Whenever I focus on myself, those regrets come storming back. 
    • IF YOU HAVEN’T turned your life over to God, or you’re not sure if you have, let’s take care of that now. 
    • IF YOU’VE DRIFTED AWAY from the Lord, but want to reconnect, let’s take care of that now, too.
    • IF YOU HAVE turned your life over to God, let’s celebrate that and praise God for His goodness. 

    God keeps His promises. You will not lose your salvation. 

    • Why? Because you did not earn it. 
    • God gave it to you as a gift. 
    • This gift results from His grace.
    • He wants to spend Eternity with you.

    Together, we can pray prayers of 

    • contrition, 
      • reconciliation, and 
      • praise.

    PRAYER

    Lord, I am a sinner. I need Your forgiveness and Your grace.

    I believe Jesus is the Messiah, that He is Your Son, that He lived a perfect life and died on Calvary’s Cross for me, and that by believing in Him, I will be clothed in His righteousness, and You will forgive my transgressions and save even me. 

    Abba, Daddy, come into my heart today, and be both My Lord and My Savior.

    For those of us who have given our lives to God, we thank You, O Lord, for Your grace, for the boundless gift of life that You have promised Your own. 

    Now draw us closer to You, O Lord, that we might walk as Jesus walked and talk as Jesus talked, all in Your name and for Your glory.

    Lord, we honor You, we praise You, and we worship You. We lift this prayer in the mighty name of Jesus Christ. 

    BENEDICTION

    The word of the Lord as we end our worship and go into our mission field …

    “For you have been born again, not of perishable seed, but of imperishable, through the living and enduring word of God.” 1 Peter 1:23 BSB

    The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with you all.

    AMEN

    – Revelation 22:21 (NKJV)

  • BELIEVING WITHOUT SEEING: Our Test of Faith


    Our test of faith as Christ followers is to believe that Jesus Christ is who He said He is, even though we have not seen Him. 

    Who did He say He is? The Son of Man. The Son of God. The Messiah. Our Redeemer. Our Savior.



    CHRISTIAN MESSAGE

    PASTOR, JOURNALIST, AUTHOR


    PREAMBLE

    TRY TO PICTURE this scene: You are living 2,000 years ago in Israel, eagerly waiting for the Messiah to appear. 

    The scriptures foretold His arrival right down to describing his mother (a virgin), His birthplace (Bethlehem), and the time of His arrival (see Isaiah 7:14, Micah 5:2, Hosea 11:1). The scriptures also foretold the miracles He would do (Isaiah 35:5-6) and what His mission would be (Isaiah 61:1-2). 

    Right in front of you is a Man doing exactly what the Scriptures, what we now call the Old Testament, foretold, and yet your spiritual leaders – the Pharisees and the Sadducees – express their doubt and disapproval.

    What are you to believe? 

    The Bible tells us that Jesus, the Messiah, would be “a man of sorrows,” and this Man certainly bore many sorrows, from rejection by His own people to the heartache of watching His believed creation make a mess of their lives.

    Those people, like us today, must decide for themselves just who this Man was and is.

    THE MESSIAH

    SOMETIMES JESUS TOLD PEOPLE straight up who He was. Usually, He did not. He acted the role of the Coming One. The blind saw, the deaf heard, the lame leaped and danced, the mute spoke, and the dead returned to life. He forgave sins. 

    What He did not do was liberate Israel from Roman rule. That was not His mission nor His intent, and so the people, expecting an earthly Messiah, missed it. They missed what was right in front of them. They missed what they saw and what they heard.

    He said, “I and My Father are One.” (John 10:30) He said men and women were to believe in Him for salvation (John 6:29) and that unless they ate of His flesh and drank of His blood, they would have no part of Him. (John 6:53-58)

    WHAT HE DID

    So, what actually did He do?

    He calmed the storms, He walked on water, He turned water into wine, and He multiplied fish and loaves.

    He rebuked the Pharisees, He stumped the Sadducees, He challenged His Jewish listeners with a tale of a Good Samaritan (not just a good man, but a good Samaritan man). That would have riled His Jewish listeners.

    He curred a woman who had bled for 12 years and brought a 12-year-old girl back to life.

    He touched lepers, curing the incurable. He touched dead bodies and restored them to life.

    He honored women, He challenged men, He blessed children.

    He fulfilled the Law and the Prophets and then He changed everything with a New Covenant at the Passover table in which He was both the officiating elder and the sacrificial Lamb.

    He foretold His own death, and He choreographed His arrest. He was fully in charge during His multiple sham trials, His brutal whipping and beating, and even His being nailed to the Cross.

    At the end, He forgave those who innocently persecuted Him; not those who should have known who He was but those who hadn’t been told.

    He forgave a woman who cheated on her husband, revealed Himself to a woman who had been married five times and was now living with a sixth man, healed a young boy smitten by a demon, gave strength to the weak faith of the boy’s father, and restored to complete health a raving lunatic who had terrorized a whole town from his abode among the tombs. 

    He said He preceded Abraham; He would give no sign except the sign of Jonah; He sought baptism from John the Baptizer to fulfill the Scripture, and He endured 40 days and 40 nights of hunger and thirst in the wilderness while withstanding temptation from Satan.

    He appeared to Abraham, encouraged Noah to build an Ark, challenged Joshua, patiently courted Gideon, forgave David, gave wisdom to Solomon, walked with Daniel in the Lion’s Den, and forced a giant fish to spit a repentant Jonah onto dry land.

    He sent demon-filled pigs off a cliff; He rode into town on a donkey that had never known a rider; He allowed the multitude to worship Him, and He declared that even the very stones would cry out that He was the Messiah, the Son of the Most High God, at His command, if He let them.

    The demons knew who He was, and they shuddered. They feared Him.

    Mere man did not know who He was, and they condemned Him.

    From the Cross, He promised salvation to the thief on His right and delivered the care of His mother into the hands of His most trusted disciple, John.

    This. Is. Jesus.

    YOUR TURN

    WHAT IS YOUR RESPONSE to this message of hope?

    How do you react to the message that the Messiah, God incarnate, has entered His creation as God-Man, born of a woman, lived a perfect life, became a sacrifice for our sins, and died, then was resurrected to sit down next to the Father’s throne for all of eternity?

    Have you seen Him?

    Have you heard Him speak?

    Have you seen His miracles?

    Do you know Him?

    Church, if you’re paying even the least bit of attention to the world around you, you have seen Him every day. 

    You have seen Him in the glory and majesty of His creation, from the distant stars that shine at night to reports you have heard or read of the nano world visible only through the most powerful microscopes.

    You know – as we have learned – He positioned the Earth in the right spot in the universe, tilting it at just the right angle, at the right distance from the right star, and the right distance from two neighboring planets that keep it in its proper orbit.

    He made the universe expand at just the right rate to keep it from imploding. He protects us from harm with two mega-sized planets properly positioned for that task.

    You have seen Him in the incredible instrument of our bodies that he fashioned, from eyelids, eyelashes, and tear ducts to bodily organs that take in nutrients and expel waste, from hands that can paint, draw, write, hammer, saw, bake, plant, and mold, to feet that can walk, skip, trot, climb, and run.

    You have seen Him in brains that can imagine instruments and machinery that make our lives easier, from the wheel and shoelaces to buggy whips and calendars, from elevators and airplanes to computers and smart phones, from robots and rockets to sonnets and calculus; from Mozart to Beethoven and Plato to Aristotle; from Shakespeare and Bacon to Updike and Bellow, from Washington and Lafayette to Jefferson and Lincoln; from our mothers and fathers, to you and me.

    SHARE THE WORD

    HE CAME FIRST, as a Jew, to the Jews, then turned to the Greeks (Gentiles).

    He said He would build His church on the solid rock, that even the gates of Hell could not – and would not – prevail against it.

    He chose us – you and me – to tell this story to a fallen world.

    Church, do you share that story with anyone? 

    Do you?

    • Do you say a word to anyone about what you’ve seen, what you’ve heard, what you’ve tasted, and what you’ve felt? 
    • Do you share with others what you’ve sensed within, that voice of God speaking into your heart?
    • Do you share the Good News of the Savior’s love, of His sacrifice on the Cross, of the pain He endured from the Father’s wrath?
    • Do you tell your friends and family who He is? How about neighbors, fellow residents, co-workers?
    • Do strangers see His light in your eyes,
    • Hear His voice in your speech,
    • Feel His presence when you are with them?

    Remember Jesus confronting Thomas, dubbed “doubting Thomas,” “Then Jesus said to Thomas, ‘Put your finger here and look at My hands. Reach out your hand and put it into My side. Stop doubting and believe.’” 

    In effect, Jesus was saying: “Thomas, Thomas, Thomas! You’ve been with me for three years! Do you not yet understand? Stop doubting and believe!”

    When Thomas saw the holes and felt the piercing, he finally did believe.

    “Thomas replied, ‘My Lord and my God!’ [Then] Jesus said to him, ‘Because you have seen Me, you have believed; blessed are those who have not seen and yet have believed.’” – John 20:27-29 BSB 

    JESUS IS CALLING

    JESUS CALLS US to have faith in Him, to believe in Him, in His message, in His teaching, in His healing, and most of all, in His being, who He is, the Son of God and the Son of Man. 

    The Messiah. The Holy One. The Sacrificial Lamb. The Expected One. The World’s Redeemer. The Christ of God.

    JESUS IS THE GOD-MAN.

    WE ARE TO BELIVE THAT AND SHARE THAT.

    WITHOUT HAVING SEEN HIM.

    Let me ask you this question: Who else has had such a claim on your life, whether seen or unseen? 

    Your mother? Your father? (Our parents were as flawed as you and I are).

    Any military leaders or government officals come to mind?

    How about church leaders?

    Any athletes or entertainers or scientists or poets or writers or historians or doctors or chemists or astronauts or carpenters or laborers or gardeners … or anyone?

    ANYONE?

    If not, why is that? Once you know the answer – or even suspect you do – what will you do with that answer? Of course, you know what the answer should be – there is no one else who compares with Him.

    The Bible says, “‘To whom then will you compare Me that I would be his equal?’ says the Holy One.” (Isaiah 40:25 NASB)

    How will that knowledge change your life? Will it change your life? Will such awareness matter, or will you – as so many do – slough it off as just foolishness or as something that most assuredly can wait for another time?

    They say: “I’m okay for now, Lord. You just go along and do your God thing. I’ll let you know if I need you.”

    Church, you have been given all the information you’ll ever need to make the right decision about accepting or rejecting the Lord Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior – that means, having a reconstituted, reborn, personal relationship with Jesus.

    How will you decide? Your eternity rests on the decision you make today. A praise song says it this way: 

    Church, Jesus is calling. He’s calling you, and He’s calling me. 

    Unlike Thomas, as faithful as that apostle proved to be, we do not have to see the nail holes in Jesus’ hands to believe they are there, nor do we need to place our fingers in His side where the Roman sword pierced Him to believe He was stabbed.

    Here’s what the Bible says:

    • “Now faith is the assurance of what we hope for and the certainty of what we do not see.” Hebrews 11:1 BSB

    We can believe without seeing. 

    ANY WAY you look at it, Jesus was talking about us – about you and me. He is calling us to believe, even though we have not seen Him in bodily form. 

    Let’s answer His call – today – with a resounding

    ‘Yes, Lord, I believe!’ 

    PRAYER

    LORD, I confess my sins to You.

    I am unworthy in my own flesh to be called Your son or daughter, but I believe that through the shed blood of Jesus Christ, You will hear my prayer, forgive my sins, and heal my heart.

    Lord, even though I have not seen You in the flesh, I still believe.

    Thank You for Your gift of life that You give freely to all who do believe.

    In the name of Jesus, I raise this petition. AMEN

  • 1 PETER 1: Overcoming Regret Through Faith in God

    INTRODUCTION

    • Do you ever get discouraged when you focus on your life and wonder just what God has in store for you?
    • Do you ever get mad at God when you think you’ve been left behind and there’s more to life than what you have?
    • Do you ever believe, if even for a moment, that someone else is living the life that should be yours?

    CHRISTIAN MESSAGE

    Pastor, Journalist, Author


    In this you greatly rejoice, though now for a little while, if need be, you have been grieved by various trials … yet believing, you rejoice with joy inexpressible and full of glory, receiving the end of your faith – the salvation of your souls. – 1 Peter 1:6, 8b-9 NKJV

    SUMMARY SENTENCE: God assures us through the Apostle Peter that He wants only good things for His children, but the primary goal of His calling on our lives is not to grant us our every wish for this life, although He often does, but to prepare us for glory, for an eternity with Him.

    1. LIFE’S DISAPPOINTMENTS

    LIFE DOESN’T ALWAYS work out the way we want it to, does it?

    We pray for something, dream about, prepare for it … and, often, our dream doesn’t materialize; or when it does… whether it’s our graduation, or marriage, or a great job, or a bigger house, or a new car … we find the novelty, the excitement, the thrill dies quickly.

    Or, we miss a cue. We fail to take advantage of the opportunities life brings us, or we make the wrong choices, or we labor in our own delusion for years, thinking we’re on the right track, only to wake up one day and regret the path taken. 

    You know these expressions:

    Let’s take a look at what verses 6-9 of 1 Peter 1 have for us.

    2. WHAT IT MEANS

    WHAT IT ALL means is this: We humans are apt to live much of our lives mired in regret.

    For those of us who are more discerning, we draw comfort and inspiration from the Bible, where the Apostle Paul, addressing this issue, declared:

    LIFE LESSONS: (Spoiler Alert: Only the 3rd one works)

    1. Get Back Up and Try Harder
    2. Take Stock of the Situation and Adjust
    3. Care for Our Soul – Find Our Peace and Guidance in God.

    1. GET BACK UP

    IN MY OWN life, I have experienced many of life’s challenges; and when I’ve failed, I try to rescue myself and push on.

    That helps to some extent, doesn’t it? It certainly gets us moving again, and that’s a good thing; but it’s limited in its utility. Why? Because our self-help strategies at best are a temporary solution to what could be a long-term or permanent situation.

    Personal Example – Marriage #1

    • Lack of wisdom (could not identify our difficulties)
    • Lack of spiritual bond (no common core)
    • Lack of family support (our families opposed the marriage).

    There’s a maxim, credited to Albert Eienstein, that “Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result.” 

    > Getting back up and trying harder does not change the situation; it only makes us more determined to try the same solution, expecting a better outcome. Imagine trying to break open a stuck door. Each time you thrust yourself at the stubborn door, you strike it harder, until, with a sore shoulder, you stop the effort. <

    2. TAKE STOCK 

    TAKING STOCK MEANS looking for a better solution. Engaging our minds. This actually is an improvement over Trying Harder because at least we are engaging our mind, not just our will.

    Getting back up and trying harder can be repeated ad nauseam before we realize that doing the same thing leads to the same end. So, eventually, we look for a better solution. When there’s growth, it comes when — or if — we look *inward* for a solution, instead of *outward.*

    Personal Example – Marriage #2

    • Lack of shared experience (different life histories)
    • Lack of shared expectations (which one was to make us happy)
    • Lack of purpose (no children, no shared house, no clear vision, no spiritual core).

    Admittedly, these are “big ticket” items. Marriage decisions impact our lives for years as well as the lives of our children and, therefore, of our grandchildren. Get it wrong, and you can mess up a bunch of lives for a long time, even generations.

    If we focus solely on ourselves (our needs, our wants, our desires), we continue to overlook the bigger picture. What is going on here and why? If we focus on God, then we have a source we can go to for understanding and for comfort.

    At this point in my life that I am describing, I focused solely on myself and my wants. God had not entered the picture. [Well, actually, He had, but I wasn’t aware of it yet.]

    When I faced my second divorce, and afterwards a series of aborted relationships, some of which (I thought at the time) could have led to marriage, it slowly dawned on me that there was a common element harming each of those relationships … ME! 

    I was the common element. In short, I was the problem. I wasn’t the only problem, but I was the only problem I could fix. As the comic strip character Pogo said, “We have met the enemy, and he is us!”

    No matter how much I wanted to blame someone else, this was my problem. I was a contributing factor, and it was my responsibility to fix it. My character, who I was inside, was broken and needed healing. Until I recognized that and began to deal with it, I would never heal.

    >Taking stock of our lives is an improvement, for sure, over trying harder because it requires us to begin thinking about why our lives aren’t turning out the way we want them to. Taking stock becomes more valuable as a fix-it tool if we are willing to look at ourselves — to look inward — as the possible problem.

    >However, it still doesn’t resolve our difficulties unless we’re willing to get help from an outside source. We can’t do this all by ourselves.<

    So, when trying harder doesn’t work, and taking stock of the situation doesn’t include all of the relevant elements (like our own involvement), then we need a whole attitude adjustment.

    This is what I came to see. When we can accept that we might be culpable for our own mistakes, our own faulty judgment, then we can begin to make necessary changes that could lead to a different, and better, outcome. 

    It can be discouraging to realize your own culpability, but I believe it’s the first step we can take to improve our situations. We can’t change other people, and we might have limited ability to change our environment, but we have a whole host of possibilities at our command if we focus on changing ourselves.

    That brings us to our third point:

    3. CARE FOR YOUR SOUL

    I BELIEVE GOD gives us that grace so we can take the steps necessary to make change. One of those steps we take could lead us directly to God’s throne, which most likely is His intent. 

    What does it mean to “fix” something? How do you know what’s broken and needs fixing? Where do you go for the answers? Who can you trust? 

    We easily can get stuck. Some people get stuck at the *try harder* phase, while I – and others like me – can park for years on the *take stock* phase, blaming everyone and everything but ourselves, rolling different ideas over and over, while failing to find the right key — the one that unlocks the door.

    All of those who are unwilling to open their lives to the Lord’s hand will find diversions to deaden their pain: overwork, entertainment, exercise, gambling, substance abuse, adultery — each of which carries its own penalty. Each one of them causes harm to the person physically or emotionally or financially, yet we hold onto our “fix.”

    When, finally, we are willing to look inward, to look at ourselves, at what we bring to the equation, we can — in humility — begin to find workable answers. But since we’re on our third point — caring for our soul — we need to emphasize that *soul care* requires a personal relationship with the Lord. We cannot do that on our own. 

    Finding answers does not necessarily mean fixing or changing our situation; at least not right away. It might be limited to just fixing the way we react to a situation. Do we live in bitterness? Or do we live in God’s grace?

    The Bible tells us not to blame God for our circumstances. He is not the cause of our problems, but He offers to be the solution. 

    He never promised us we would never suffer; He promised only that (1) He would suffer alongside us and (2) In the end, if we believe, our future will be in Heaven with Him.

    God is more interested in our eternal state than He is in our temporal state, even though we, in our human frailty, mostly focus on the temporal.

    • “In all this, Job did not sin or charge God with wrongdoing.” – Job 1:22 BSB
    • “I have said these things to you, that in me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world.” – John 16:33 ESV
    • “We know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose.” – Romans 8:28 NKJV

    Just like a picture puzzle, there’s only one piece in the box that will satisfy the demands of that empty space you’re looking at. 

    ONLY ONE.

    3. RECOGNIZING SOLUTIONS

    GOD CAN BE so good to us. In my case, His goodness led to yet a third marriage, but this time to a born-again Christian. This was – and is – a grace note to my life.

    Personal Example – Marriage #3

    God did not have to restore my home life to include a wife. A good wife was not part of God’s promise to me for some accomplishment on my part, although she certainly is a bonus prize.

    Also, God did not present this woman to me, much as eons earlier He had presented Eve to Adam, until after I had made two important life changes:

    • (1) I accepted Jesus as my Lord and Savior, and
    • (2) I humbly told Him I would accept His plan for my life, even if His plan did not include remarriage.

    Within hours after I made that prayer, God brought that woman to my attention.

    I never really fixed anything for more than a brief time until I examined my soul. 

    I FOUND THE ANSWERS TO MY QUESTIONS IN THE ONLY PLACE WHERE I COULD FIND ANSWERS: JESUS CHRIST.

    Don’t say, “That’s just Christian Speak.” They always go there. No, folks, this is real. This is the real deal. Jesus Christ is the Answer to life’s baffling questions.

    >Coming to faith in Jesus Christ was not an easy process for me, nor is it, really, for anyone because we’re called to submit our wills and our lives to Someone else. That can be very uncomfortable.<

    That goes against our grain of self-determination. 

    • We cling to that Free Will God gave us. 
    • We don’t want to let go, even when letting go and letting God will lead us to a much better place than we can make on our own. 
    • Even when we know it will, we’re often reluctant to trust God and take that fist step.

    The Bible gives us encouragement and a warning:

    • ENCOURAGEMENT: “I am the vine; you are the branches. The one who remains in me and I in him produces much fruit, because you can do nothing without me.” – John 15:5 CSB
    • WARNING: “The prudent see danger and take refuge, but the simple keep going and pay the penalty.” – Proverbs 27:12 NIV 

    The actual steps are simple … yet, unfortunately, so difficult to accept.

    • Admit you’re a sinner, 
    • Accept that Jesus is THE GOD MAN and that He lived a perfect life and died a painful death to atone for your sins, and 
    • Then receive Him into your heart to be both your Savior and Lord.

    Now, once we’ve come to accept the Lord Jesus as the master and ruler of our lives, then the real joy of living begins … because:

    • We are called as His disciples and followers to be on mission.
    • We are called to tell others what God has done for us.

    HOW DO WE do that? How do we live on mission for others?

    These are three things you can do, and I’m preaching to myself here, too:

    1. We can pray for others – is there anyone you are called to pray for?
    2. We can smile and be pleasant — are you a pleasant person to be around?
    3. We can befriend them – do you routinely consider the needs of others?

    Our church says we ought to live out our lives in such a manner that we earn the right to tell others about Jesus. Our lives are our first message to the world.

    While humbling ourselves to accept Jesus can be difficult — we don’t like giving up control — we’ll never regret coming to faith, but we will regret not having come to faith sooner.

    The Bible clearly states the terrible fate that awaits those who never come to faith. Pride leads to destruction.

    Pride is …

    • The original sin
    • The great crippler.
    1. Trying harder doesn’t work because it yields the same result.
    2. Taking stock is a step toward improvement because we’re starting to think about our situation, but its utility depends on our analyzing all the important variables – including those pointing back to ourselves. In the end, it still depends on self-improvement, which is limited in its utility.
    3. Surrendering our lives to the Author of life is the saving grace because now we’re “teachable” and under the tutelage of the Master. It’s the only solution that works. 

    CONCLUDING SCRIPTURE: “In this you greatly rejoice, though now for a little while, if need be, you have been grieved by various trials … yet believing, you rejoice with joy inexpressible and full of glory, receiving the end of your faith – the salvation of your souls.” – 1 Peter 1:6, 8b-9 NKJV

    SALVATION IS THE GREAT HOPE. 

    THAT HOPE IS WHAT GIVES US JOY, COMFORT, AND PEACE IN THIS WORLD.

    FINAL WORD

    JESUS’ GRACE is sufficient even when our faith is weak.

    1. There is no need to despair. 
    2. There is no need to fear, nor be tormented by regrets, or constant wishful thinking. 
    3. Believe in Him. He always tells us that He is the answer to life’s questions.

    This is a lesson for me to learn, too. Like many of you, I struggle with regret. 

    1. But whenever I focus on God – not on myself but on God – then my regrets float away, like a mist of smoke. 
    2. Whenever I focus on myself, those regrets come storming back. 
    • IF YOU HAVEN’T turned your life over to God, or you’re not sure if you have, let’s take care of that now. 
    • IF YOU’VE DRIFTED AWAY from the Lord, but want to reconnect, let’s take care of that now, too.
    • IF YOU HAVE turned your life over to God, let’s celebrate that and praise God for His goodness. 

    God keeps His promises. You will not lose your salvation. 

    • Why? Because you did not earn it. 
    • God gave it to you as a gift. 
    • This gift results from His grace.
    • He wants to spend Eternity with you.

    Together, we can pray prayers of contrition, reconciliation, and praise.

    PRAYER

    LORD, I AM A SINNER. I need Your forgiveness and Your grace. I believe Jesus is the Messiah, that He is Your Son, that He lived a perfect life and died on Calvary’s Cross for me, and that by believing in Him, I will be clothed in His righteousness, and You will forgive my transgressions and save even me. 

    ABBA, Daddy, come into my heart today, and be both My Lord and My Savior.

    For those of us who have given our lives to God, we thank You, O Lord, for Your grace, for the boundless gift of life that You have promised Your own. 

    Now draw us closer to You, O Lord, that we might walk as Jesus walked and talk as Jesus talked, all in Your name and for Your glory.

    Lord, we honor You, we praise You, and we worship You. We lift this prayer in the mighty name of Jesus Christ. 

    BENEDICTION

    HEAR THE WORD OF THE LORD AS WE END OUR WORSHIP AND GO FORTH …

    “For you have been born again, not of perishable seed, but of imperishable, through the living and enduring word of God.” – 1 Peter 1:23 BSB

    AMEN and AMEN

  • 1 PETER 4 – ALL FOR GOD’S GLORY

    Serving God is both an honor and opportunity. Although He does not need us, He wants us. As forgiven and loved people, we must enter our mission fields, sharing Christ, testifying boldly, and using our gifts for His glory.

    In our series on 1 Peter, we’re on 1 Peter 4. We’ve highlighted four messages within this chapter.


    CHRISTIAN MESSAGE

    Pastor, Journalist, Author


    • “You won’t spend the rest of your lives chasing your own desires, but you will be anxious [eager] to do the will of God.” – 1 Peter 4:2 NLT
    • “As good stewards of the manifold grace of God, each of you should use whatever gift he has received to serve one another.” – 1 Peter 4:10 BSB

                                            

    1. CHANGED LIFESTYLE

    “FOR YOU HAVE SPENT ENOUGH TIME IN THE PAST CARRYING OUT THE SAME DESIRES AS THE GENTILES: LIVING IN DEBAUCHERY, LUST, DRUNKENNESS, ORGIES, CAROUSING, AND DETESTABLE IDOLATRY. BECAUSE OF THIS, THEY CONSIDER IT STRANGE OF YOU NOT TO PLUNGE WITH THEM INTO THE SAME FLOOD OF RECKLESS INDISCRETION, AND THEY HEAP ABUSE ON YOU. BUT THEY WILL HAVE TO GIVE AN ACCOUNT TO HIM WHO IS READY TO JUDGE THE LIVING AND THE DEAD.” — 1 PETER 4:3-5 BSB

    [DON’T GET HUNG-UP over the term “Gentiles” in this passage. Although that refers to those of us who are not Jewish, in this context it means “unbelievers,” those who have not accepted Jesus Christ as the Messiah, the Savior of the world, the Son of God.]

    I LOVE THIS VERSE. God, through His agent, the apostle Peter, is giving us a statement about our changed lives in Christ, how we used to engage in ribald behavior – the world calls it “fun” – but now we don’t. 

    We’re chaste. We’re sober. We’re not profligate with our money. We don’t take unnecessary risks. We don’t cuss. We don’t condemn *other* people for their *otherness*. We don’t judge them.

    Our women don’t flirt with other’s women’s husbands; our men don’t lust after other men’s wives.

    We show compassion. We’re patient. We’re encouraging. We’re eager to help. We praise, rather than condemn. We joke, but it’s kind, not harsh or belittling. We don’t shame someone. 

    We look out for the defenseless and the helpless and the hopeless. We cherish “the least of these.”

    And, yeah, our friends notice.

    Oh, how they notice! Some may be displeased; others might be jealous. 

    It’s with sadness that I share that I lost a good “drinking buddy” after I came to the Lord. We drank together during graduate school – so many, many years ago – and met many times in the years following graduation, until it became apparent that only one of us was going to drink alcohol, and one was not, and that killed the connection.

    I had the opportunity to share my faith with my friend, and he asked me various pointed questions, until I said, “You’re placing a great deal of trust in my answers to your questions, when you should be searching for those answers yourself. They’re available to you. Just ask God.”

    2. LOVING ONE ANOTHER

    “ABOVE ALL, KEEP LOVING ONE ANOTHER EARNESTLY, SINCE LOVE COVERS A MULTITUDE OF SINS. SHOW HOSPITALITY TO ONE ANOTHER WITHOUT GRUMBLING.” – 1 PETER 4:8-9 ESV

    IF GOD WERE to give me an opportunity to delete some words from His sacred text, I would be tempted to start with these. “Love one another earnestly” and “show hospitality … without grumbling” are “no goes” for me.

    I stand convicted, being very guarded of both my heart and my home. I even hate to loan someone a pen. I watch it carefully; fearful I’ll need to chase the miscreant to retrieve it. What is it with pens, anyway?

    In theory – in the abstract, devoid of real-life experience – I agree with those two commandments. I just find it difficult to do them.

    Aren’t there commandments you find difficult to keep? I’m sure there are. We’re all alike, weak-willed and sin filled. That’s why we need Jesus!

    So, let’s just pass over the difficult-to-obey commandments and go on to the Bible’s next passage. Maybe the next one will be easier for us.

    Right? Wrong!

    That’s not the right attitude. If I’m convicted by God’s Word, then I need to ask Him to fill my heart with the right spirit, that I will honor Him and His call on my life.

    This passage calls on me to think about someone else’s comfort, someone else’s needs, someone else’s perspective, someone else’s feelings. 

    As Christians, we are called to refrain from asking: “What can you do for me?”; asking instead, “What can I do for you?”

    Yes, those commandments are difficult for me. Yet, I serve a Savior who laid down His life for me. Surely, I should be able to ask Him to grant me a heart to think, feel, and consider the needs, wishes, and wants of someone else.

    Even if it means I lose a pen. Ouch!

    3. SPIRITUAL GIFTS

    “EACH ONE, AS A GOOD MANAGER OF GOD’S DIFFERENT GIFTS, MUST USE FOR THE GOOD OF OTHERS THE SPECIAL GIFT HE HAS RECEIVED FROM GOD.” – 1 PETER 4:10 GNT

    DO YOU EVER play that church game where we striate the various tasks we see on campus? We place this task above that one, and honor this gift over another one, and simply ignore what some folks have labored over, and then labor over stuff that no one else notices.

    Hey, wind me up, and I’ll tell you how I often feel slighted because my ministry – the senior center ministry – takes place *off campus* and so no one sees what we do, and few – apparently few — are motivated to step alongside us for what must seem like a difficult ministry. 

    Many choose not to preach or sing or pray in a roomful of people whose best days are spent looking through the rearview mirror, whose minds drift off to a private world where loved ones were gathered, and everyone was active and joyful and full of life. 

    One of our pastors rightly called this ministry a “special ministry.” [Actually, all ministries are “special.”]

    He said it takes a special heart to serve the underserved, but what he neglected to add – perhaps because he was not aware of it – is that the blessings received from doing this ministry are enormous, way out of scale to the effort put into the service. 

    Frankly and honestly, I’ve been surprised, myself, at the level of asymmetry between effort out and reward in.

    We find most people are drawn to working with those who come after us because we feel we have something to share, to help them grow in their walk with the Lord; but how many feel called to minister to those who go ahead of us, to that place that beckons to us, “Come to me; you’re next.” A place where sickness and death await.

    We have the privilege of ministering to a population that deeply appreciates us and what we do for them. 

    There is a gifting that God provides us as His followers. While we take evaluation tests to determine our giftedness, God can surprise us. He has His own metric to use, and it’s faultless. 

    When God plugs you into something, you can feel confident He has placed you in the right spot – just where He wants you and just where you are needed.

    This verse also calls us to consider each of God’s giftings as valuable in His eyes. There is no striation in His plan. Preaching over painting? No. Teaching over Training? No. Evangelism over Encouraging? No. Singing over security? No. Cleaning over carpentry? No.

    All spots – both volunteer and paid — are valuable in God’s sight, and all are blessed in serving the Lord and the Lord’s anointed.

    If we are using our gifting to benefit the church body and the community outside our doors, then we are serving God according to His plan for us. There is no room for boasting. No room for comparisons. No room for envy. No room for friction. No room for complaining.

    We are to be good managers and use our gifting to benefit others. 

    4. SUFFERING FOR CHRIST

    “IF YOU ARE INSULTED FOR THE NAME OF CHRIST, YOU ARE BLESSED, BECAUSE THE SPIRIT OF GLORY AND OF GOD RESTS ON YOU.” – 1 PETER 4:17 LSB

    “FOR IT IS TIME FOR JUDGMENT TO BEGIN WITH THE HOUSE OF GOD; AND IF IT BEGINS WITH US FIRST, WHAT WILL BE THE OUTCOME FOR THOSE WHO DO NOT OBEY THE GOSPEL OF GOD?” – 1 PETER 4:17 LSB

    IF YOU’RE LIKE ME, and you are – because we’re alike – then you shiver whener you read in God’s Word that we’re called to suffer with Christ to join Him in glory, and we think – “Lord, maybe we just focus on the glory part there and soft-pedal the suffering part.”

    But whether we are called, as Christ was called, to suffer bodily harm, torture, and death for the Gospel, or we just suffer the stares and whispering and cold shoulders of those who want to push us and our Gospel-peddling aside, we will suffer at some point.

    We often express fear of antagonizing a neighbor or a co-worker – or even family members gathered around the Thanksgiving Day table – with our God talk, but today – even today – our brothers and sisters in many other countries are worshipping in secret or fearing a militia raid that will lead to the rape of the women, the crucifixion of the men, and the burning of the huts. 

    After the raping and looting comes the slaughter as men, women, and children are butchered, their bodies torn apart, the pieces left rotting in the hot sun. 

    For what crime? For worshipping the Lord as Christians.

    And you’re worried about the cold shoulder and some whispering?

    Really?

    It saddens me even to talk of this, to present to you this unpleasant truth – too many self-proclaimed Christians live lives indistinguishable from the rest of the world and never breathe a word of their faith to anyone.

    God does not hold us responsible for someone else’s response to the Gospel message, but He does hold us responsible for trying – or failing to try.

    When I meet Jesus in Heaven, I do not want to field a question like, “I died on the cross for you, son. What did you do for Me?”

    Let’s refocus on today’s text source. “As good stewards of the manifold grace of God, each of you should use whatever gift he has received to serve one another.”

    Can you just let those words simmer in you for a moment and blossom? You are God’s chosen child.

    We are to share the gifts we were given with others. We are to do so in thanksgiving and with praise. All we have, and all we are, is part of the mosaic, the fellowship, the church. 

    We are the body; Christ is the Head. 

    Let us be faithful stewards.

    FINAL WORDS

    SERVING OUR LORD in whatever capacity He calls us should be seen as a great opportunity for us, just as it should be viewed as a great honor.

    God wants us. God calls us. God chooses us. God looks for us. God forgives us. God loves us. 

    God does not need us, but He wants us.

    He does not need us, but He wants us. (I know I repeated those words, but they bear repeating.)

    CHURCH: As we leave fellowship this morning (afternoon), let us respond to God’s gifting in our lives with our love, our praise, and our worship.

    Let us resolve to enter our personal mission field, ready, able, and willing to share the Gospel entrusted to us, to testify to the change that Jesus Christ has made in our lives, and to use our special gifting in service to King Jesus. 

    PRAYER

    O LORD, OUR GOD, When we in awesome wonder, consider all the worlds Your hands have made. We see the stars; we hear the rolling thunder, throughout the universe displayed. 

    And when we think of God, his Son not sparing, sent Him to die, we scarce can take it in. That on that cross, our burdens gladly bearing, He bled and died to take away our sin. 

    Lord, Your goodness, grace, and mercy are more than we can imagine. Your vision for us is so much better than what we’ve managed to hold onto. 

    We are so grateful, so thankful, for how You have rescued us from the mess we’ve gotten ourselves into, brushed off our dirt and grit, bathed us clean and fresh, and restored our souls in Your sight to righteousness.

    In response, we can only fall to our knees (even if we do so only in our minds), and humbly sing Your praises and say, “Thank You, Lord Jesus! Thank You.”

    We lift this prayer in the mighty name of our Savior, Jesus, the Christ of God.

    AMEN and AMEN

  • HOMOSEXUALITY – One Christian’s Response


    Christian Message

    By WARD PIMLEY

    Pastor, Journalist, Author


    PERHAPS NO SIN PATTERN divides the Christian community today more than does the sin of homosexuality, both gay and lesbian.

    Most of us know someone who struggles with same-sex attraction, and many of us recoil when confronted with flagrant displays of gay or lesbian conduct.

    Why is that? Is it because the sin pattern is so odious to us that we separate from it reflexively, or could it be that all of us have, even to a tiny degree, an inkling that we, too, could be tempted?

    If we take the position – as does this column – that all sin patterns are tempting to mankind, whether it is cheating on a spouse or income taxes, telling fibs large or small, selfishly ignoring the pleas of the helpless around us, or even eating more sweets and carbs than our diet and doctor recommend, then we can readily see how someone’s homosexual lifestyle is more threatening to our self-esteem than any other sin pattern our neighbor can exhibit.

    Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor homosexuals, nor sodomites, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God. — 1 Corinthians 6:9-10 (NKJV)

    Homosexuality threatens our very self-image of being either masculine (male) or feminine (female). Our neighbor cheating on his/her spouse or their income taxes would not necessarily be visible to us, nor would it likely challenge our self-image.

    *****

    HOMOSEXUALITY, HOWEVER, places a mirror before us that causes us to reflect on whether, even if in the tiniest, briefest moment, we, too, could be similarly tempted.

    We might think: Are we any less masculine (or feminine) if even for that quick fleeting moment we sense a recognition of the temptation that lures our neighbor to pursue that sin pattern wholeheartedly?

    What other sin pattern has that same impact on us?

    Is that any different from the thought — again, fleeting and quickly dismissed — of taking an income tax deduction to which we’re not entitled or to grabbing extra pens and notepads from our employer when no one is around to observe?

    Yet all of us would admit, even without pride, that we’re tempted to grab something that’s not ours, even if it’s just tooling down the highway above the speed limit. 

    The Bible is very clear that we are not to hold ourselves out to be better or more holy than someone else and not to judge their sin more harshly than we judge our own.

    — ROMANS 2:1b

    We disdain all forms of weakness, and we take pride in our ability to deny self. After all, that’s not only the moral position but also is part of what we consider being mature.

    Who does not feel a bit healthier just by declining a second portion of pie and ice cream or a bit more noble when avoiding the opportunity to rifle through the office supplies?

    Aren’t we more likely to point the accusing finger at those among us who, in our opinion, are less noble than we are because they succumbed to the temptation of grabbing that second desert, the fistful of roller pens, or the unsupported tax deduction?

    *****

    EVEN MORE SO, what is our instinctive response to those among us who give in to the temptation they feel, more so than we do, of same-sex attraction? Consider also, that once that sin is indulged in, it can overtake us and demand a lifestyle change to comport with our new community of like-minded sinners.

    Personally, I am not aware of a fellowship community of tax cheats, adulterers, gamblers, drunks, and spouse abusers, but we all are aware of fellowship communities that attract those dealing with same-sex attraction.

    There’s another difficulty with the sin of same-sex attraction. It can’t be hidden as well as other sins, most of which are done in the darkness and away from prying eyes. Homosexuality, on the other hand, is flagrant, in-your-face, ever present, and — with the new “pride” movement — aggressively persistent.

    We all know sins that have grabbed a hold of us so strongly, and are so pernicious, that we think little of committing them, even while we know that God holds all sin as sin, from murder and armed robbery to telling “half-truths” to speeding on the open highway to eating another chocolate-chip cookie when the hostess isn’t looking.

    Yes, you say, but capital murder is a worse crime than petit theft, but we’re not talking about crime – which is a violation of a human standard. We’re talking about sin, which is a violation of God’s standard. To His holy eyes, sin is sin.

    To earn our spot in Heaven, we must be perfect as God is perfect. We aren’t, so we depend on Jesus’ cleansing blood. Since we’re all flawed and fall short of God’s glory, we ought not be the church scolds, pointing “naughty fingers” at others.

    The Bible is very clear that we are not to hold ourselves out to be better or more holy than someone else and not to judge their sin more harshly than we judge our own.

    “For in passing judgment on another you condemn yourself, because you, the judge, practice the very same things.” – Romans 2:1b ESV

    The Bible also clearly states that we will be held accountable by the Creator not only for our actions but also for our words and even our thoughts. Jesus, in His Sermon on the Mount, told us it is not enough to avoid committing adultery, just thinking about it condemns us in God’s holy eyes.

    *****

    THE GLORY OF the cross is that Jesus left the comforts of Heaven and endured that excruciating punishment for us so that we would not have to suffer the punishment for our own sin.

    The fact that all of us sin and fall short of God’s glory, that all of us are weak and sinful, that all of us war against God’s standards for our lives does not give any of us the self-proclaimed right to judge harshly someone else’s failures or lapses into persistent sin.

    We are called to turn our lives over to God, and He has promised, in turn, to transform us into new creatures, washed in His blood. While we continue to sin, we increasingly become, as the Holy Spirit works through us and in us, more Christ-like. 

    We sin less often. We avoid sin patterns and a lifestyle based around the sin that grips us. We grieve more when we fail.

    One person’s failure around homosexuality is as grievous to God as is another person’s lapses around his/her employer’s office supplies. In other words, to God, our neighbor giving in to same-sex attraction is an abomination against nature, but we, who commit other sins, stand just as condemned before a perfect God.

    *****

    THE BIBLE TELLS US we are to love our neighbor but not their sin, just as we naturally love our selves but, when redeemed, not our sin. 

    Can we acknowledge, then, the basic personhood of our failed neighbor, pray for his/her redemption, and avoid being stumbling blocks to their spiritual recovery?

    We are called to speak the truth in love to our neighbor, just as our born-again neighbors are called to speak the truth to us. Lovingly calling out someone for their sin pattern covers a multitude of our own offenses and can bring a wandering believer back into the fold. 

    It also can lead to conviction for those who are struggling with sin but who are not yet believers in God’s grace and mercy.

    None of that is possible for us if we are too busy condemning the wayward neighbor while excusing our own sin.


    PRAYER

    ALMIGHTY GOD, Father of all creation, we confess our sinful hearts and weak wills. You have told us our spirit is willing, but our flesh is weak, and that, unless we abide in You and You in us, we can do nothing worthwhile on our own.

    We ask you humbly to forgive our sin and our judgment against our neighbor’s sin. Help us, we ask, to love our failed neighbor and teach them, when given the opportunity, God’s truth and to do so with grace and love.

    Strengthen us, we pray, in our own walk with the Lord that we will be Your ambassadors, as salt and light, in word and in deed, as our Savior has commissioned us. 

    We lift our petition and our gratitude in Jesus’ beautiful name.

    AMEN

  • ALWAYS BE READY: Lessons From 1 Peter 3


    CHRISTIAN MESSAGE

    By WARD PIMLEY

    Pastor, Journalist, Author


    LET’S CREATE a little story together. Everyone loves a good story — right? — and God gives us the ability to craft our own.

    Part 1 of 4. “Sharing Our Faith”

    S0, LET’S ASSUME you’re talking with a good friend, maybe sharing coffee and some catching up, when your friend turns serious and asks you a sensitive question.

    “Say, if you don’t mind my asking, there’s something different about you. I mean, you’ve always been friendly and joke around a lot, but there’s a peace about you I didn’t see before. Is there something going on I should know about?”

    We pick up here: What do you do? Your friend has just teed up a nice compliment and wants to know how come you’re so relaxed, at peace with yourself, content – even while you’re facing some of the same battles you were before – lingering issues with your mother, a tense relationship at work, your oldest child struggling at school, your lawn turning into a weed factory. 

    Well, our text source gives us an answer, one we as believers and followers of Christ should look for and even ask God for: an opportunity to share our faith. 

    In our text source, God is telling us through the apostle Peter to dedicate our lives to the Lord and be ready, at all times, to tell others “what God has done for us,” especially, he says, when we’re asked.

    In other words, we should be living out the Gospel to earn the right to share the Gospel when given the opportunity.

    That means our lives and our words should be in synch; they should back each other up. We don’t want to preach to others the love and forgiveness that Christ offers us when our own lives don’t reflect that same commitment. 

    Also, we don’t want our words of sarcasm, nit-picking, and complaint to prevent an opportunity to testify to God’s goodness. 

    Peter was writing to a population being persecuted for following Jesus, so their witness placed their physical safety in question.

    We, fortunately, do not now face that same persecution, even while we might well face our own personal life battles. 

    Even so, our attitude, as we experience life and as people watch us, either gives a favorable witness for the Lord or detracts from it.

    WE ALL SUFFER in some way. No one gets through life without some sorrow. 

    There’s another verse in 1 Peter 3 I want to draw to your attention: 

    Once again, Jesus gives us the perfect model for how to face our life journey. 

    Who hasn’t said, at some point, “Was it fair for us that Adam’s sin has caused us to be born with sinful hearts,” even though the Bible clearly states that if we were in the place of Adam and Eve, we would have acted the same way. 

    In fact, we do. We willingly create our own diversion from God.

    But let’s ask ourselves whether the redemption part of God’s story is unfair.

    “Was it fair to Jesus that God had to send Him to leave the throne of Heaven, be born of a woman and placed in an animals’ feeding trough, live a sinless life, be harassed by religious and civic leaders, and then be sacrificed on the cross for our sins, not His own?”

    God righted the scales, as it were, giving us Jesus to succeed where our forebear Adam failed. So, fairness has nothing to do with it. 

    Life isn’t fair. We know that. Some of us suffer more than do others; some of us suffer more earlier in our lives; others suffer more later in life.

    Some of our suffering results from our own doing, our own (youthful) stupidity. Some of our suffering lingers; some of it is temporary. We may suffer more than once. 

    Pastor Rick Warren said we’re either going into trials, are in trials now, or are just emerging from trials, such that trials and tribulations are a common part of our lives. 

    They are the norm in life, not the exception. 

    That is why it is so important for us as Christ followers to live bathed in Christ’s grace. 

    That’s the kind of witness we should exhibit so that we might earn the right to share the gospel with someone. When that opportunity comes, we need to be ready to pounce.

    Part 3 of 4. “Sharing Techniques”

    HOW DO WE do it? How do we share the Gospel when God presents us with the opportunity? (What holds us back?)

    What are the magic words we can use to share our personal life journey, from sinner to saint, brought about solely through the blood and grace of Jesus Christ?

    Do you have a testimony? Do you have a before Christ to go with your after Christ experience? I sure do. 

    Unless you were led by your parents to turn your life over to God before you entered the first grade, you have a before that wasn’t very pleasant. Jesus has remade you. 

    If you did turn your life over to God before first grade, then your testimony is one of praise, yet you might have some “Jonah moments” you could share.

    If you’ve lived a pristine life, and believe you have nothing dramatic to share, then your testimony is to praise God Almighty! You could share how He kept you from falling away.

    My sense, though, is that in this case you would not have the conversation we noted at the beginning, where a friend notices a profound change in your life.

    Yes, God is not done with you yet, and He will not be until you enter Glory with Him, but He has been growing you and molding you from the mess your life was in when you turned it over to Him.

    Part 4 of 4. “Explaining Prayer”

    LET’S RETURN TO our story and take a lesson from our text source, that we should be ready to give a testimony whenever someone gives us the opportunity. 

    Our friend points out how different we are: more relaxed, more confident, more joyful. What do we say? What do you say? 

    This is the opportunity we should be praying for, and it should not fill us with dread. Instead, we ought to be able to relate something very simple, something like this:

    [Doctrinally, we *receive* Him, not ask Him, but *receive* is a passive tense verb; it does not require an action on our part; while *ask* does.] 

    [God is the acting agent who lifted the burden from my shoulders and filled my heart with a peace and joy I had not known before.]

    Or, you could say,

    You can see that in each of our examples we made it clear that any further discussion of this topic will be at the instigation and will of the other party.

    Not us.

    We are not going to push our faith onto someone, just as God does not push Himself onto us. He lets us come to the decision on our own.

    The second point to emphasize in this verse is that our discussion of faith issues with our friend must be done with love and gentleness; our text source says *courtesy and respect*. Other translations say *meekness and fear*, *gentleness and reverence*, and *courteously and respectfully*.

    Regardless of the exact words your translation uses, we are to share the truth with love and grace – not highhanded, not judgmental, not condemning – just loving acceptance of our friend’s question.

    Let’s close where we started, repeating our text source, but this time with a different translation, the Berean Standard Bible:

    FINAL WORDS

    HAVING THE OPPORTUNITY to share your faith – and praying that God will give you those opportunities – should be a way of life for each of us.

    Living out the Gospel is not enough. Being a good person is not enough. Smiling often is not enough. Neither is saying “please” and “thank you,” although those are desirable traits.

    We need to back up our actions, our lives, with words of affirmation; otherwise, we are stealing God’s glory and claiming it for our own.

    Here’s how God says it:

    Instead of the word “preach,” we can easily substitute the word “share.” So, how will someone believe without hearing, and how will someone hear without someone sharing?

    That person who shares could be you.

    That someone that God has placed in your life could be waiting for you to share your testimony, your defense (or apologia) for the hope and joy you feel in your heart.

    Just remember, when you do, share the Word with love and gentleness.


    PRAYER

    OUR HEAVENLY FATHER, our Abba, our Daddy – We are so grateful for the blessings you shower on us. We want to share our faith with others, as they express an interest in listening, so please help us prepare to share a brief testimony about our lives, to tell others what God has done for us. Then, mighty Lord and Savior, please give us the opportunity to share what God has done for us. Once we’ve prepared, give us the opening. In Jesus’ name. AMEN

  • MILITARY FORCE: Christ’s Church Seeks God’s Wisdom


    CHRISTIAN MESSAGE

    By WARD PIMLEY

    Pastor, Journalist, Author


    This blog has been devoted to Christian meditations, but this is a first step in broadening its reach to topical issues.

    These discussions will be based on biblical principles as our Christian faith should inform our positions and viewpoints.

    So, here goes …


    COMPETING VIEWS

    EVERYONE IN THE WORLD knows of the recent “dust-up” between Israel and Iran and between Israel and Iran’s proxies — Houthis, Hamas, and Hezbollah — the three Hs. 

    The question is, from a Christian perspective, what should be the position of the United States? Should we as a country become involved in a military contribution on the side of Israel, and if so, to what extent?

    Let’s examine two possibilities: First, that Jesus preached non-violence, leading us to avoid unnecessary use of armed force. This view would emphasize using the bully pulpit, combining the pulpit’s teaching side with its preaching side. 

    This view would exhaust all “soft” policy, which is “statecraft” or negotiation, before engaging in “hard” policy, which calls on military force as a last resort.

    “If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him.” – James‬ ‭1‬:‭5‬ ‭ESV‬‬
    “For the Lord gives wisdom; From His mouth come knowledge and understanding.” – Proverbs 2:6 NKJV

    The chief alternative considers the biblical response to evil. In the Old Testament, the Jews were to wipe out the natives in the Promised Land because God’s patience with them and their evil had worn out. He was imposing judgment on them.

    In Revelation, we see Jesus will wipe away all evil with just the spoken word – His Word, not ours – as He rides on a white horse from Heaven to take His throne in Jerusalem to reign over the land in the Millennium.

    The account of three battles in Revelation – Gog and Magog, Armageddon, and the final, unnamed battle, will spill tons of blood as God eradicates evil from the world.

    God’s wrath is righteous anger, while ours often is self-centered and harmful to community.

    So, how would we settle this discussion? Engage militarily or speak our truth into the storm?

    SPEAKING BOLDLY

    BOTH VIEWPOINTS have merit, but one point this column would make is that whichever course the church takes, it should speak boldly and without compromise. 

    How then can the church speak conflicting viewpoints boldly and without compromise?

    All such questions can be answered via the same formula: walk with the Lord, seek His counsel, read His Word, pray to Him, and seek His face. As we draw closer to Him, He will draw closer to us and reveal His answer.

    Let us as the church never chart any course without first seeking the Lord’s face and asking for His counsel. We should not ask Him to bless whatever it is we decide.

    This column questions how many in the church universal are seeking His face, turning to Him for His answer rather than asking Him to bless their answer.

    The view of this column is that the U.S. should make strong statements in support of Israel and its right to exist and that Israel is to own the land given to it by God. That includes Gaza, the Golan Heights, and Lebanon. 

    This column also believes the U.S. should bless Israel and support Israel through military might and that the bombing of Iran’s nuclear reactor sites was proper and in line with God’s declaration of support for the Jewish people.

    SEEKING HIS FACE

    MORE IMPORTANTLY than making a one-time decision is the process by which we continually seek God’s answers to our questions. 

    Let us as the church never chart any course ourselves without first seeking the Lord’s face and then asking Him to bless whatever it is we decide.

    This column is clear that the U.S. took the right course in bombing Iran’s nuclear facilities and then seeking a peace settlement, but at no time does this column end the process of seeking God’s face.

    We should always be humble, come together in prayer, learn from one another, and follow God’s lead as we understand it.

    We might well find that as we do so, God will reveal more of His commandment to us such that we will mold our response in some way, much like sanding a block of wood makes the block more aesthetic, easier to handle, and more useful.


    PRAYER

    ALMIGHTY GOD, PRINCE OF PEACE,

    You are both the Lion and the Lamb, 

    the conquering warrior and the humble sacrifice.

    Lead us into making the right decisions in all matters of public policy, that we as a church may represent You in truth and honor, according to Your desires, not according to our own.

    Lord, we bless You and thank You, we praise You and we worship You.

    In Jesus’ name we lift this prayer.

    AMEN

  • 1 PETER 2: We Are A Chosen People


    “Come to the Lord, the living stone rejected by people as worthless but chosen by God as valuable.” – 1 PETER 2:4 GNT

    “But you are a chosen people, royal priests, a holy nation, a people for God’s own possession. You were chosen to tell about the wonderful acts of God, who called you out of darkness into his wonderful light.” – 1 PETER 2:9 NCV


    CHRISTIAN MESSAGE

    By WARD PIMLEY

    Pastor, Journalist, Author


    THE APOSTLE PETER mentions “chosen” three times in our passage: the first time, He references His Son; the next two times, He references us.

    That word “chosen” is key to understanding 1 Peter 2 because God, through His servant Peter, reminds us that He has “chosen” us.

    In fact, in Genesis, Chater 1 Verse 28, God chose us to be collaborators with Him in rendering *dominion* over the fish of the sea, the birds of the heavens, the livestock, and over all the earth, and over every living thing that creeps on the earth.

    Please keep in mind that as we exegete 1 Peter 2, we can appreciate why God puts up with us, why He has redeemed us through His Son. He has *chosen* us and still *chooses* us to be in partnership with Him and in fellowship with each other.

    Keep in mind, also, that in our first text verse, the apostle says that Jesus is the *living stone* chosen by God to be valuable, even though His people rejected their Messiah, even though most people even today reject the Messiah.

    That word *chosen* is the key word in 1 Peter 2.

    1 Peter 2 verses 1-3 (1st segment)

    In your identity as a follower of Jesus Christ, as a true believer that He is the Messiah, the Second Person of the Tripartite Trinity, here are some descriptions – or indicators – of how you should live. This list comes to us from God through Peter. This is God’s list, not Peter’s list. Peter was the instrument, but God was the author.

    Rid yourself of:

    Replace them with: Pure Milk of the Word – so, like a baby grows through life into an adult, you may grow in your spiritual life to become one who …

    1 Peter 2 verses 4-8 (2nd segment)

    Peter then describes believers as “living stones” who are being built – or fashioned by God – into a spiritual house. That house, or structure, features Jesus Christ as the “cornerstone,” the building block upon which the house is built and stands.

    The world holds “human reason” to be the god of gods; Christians hold God’s Word to be God. 

    So, we believe …

    You will, by your life and word, prove the world’s lie as to what is true and good and perfect versus what is not. 

    The Bible tells us not to be conformed to this world, but to be transformed by the renewal of your mind, so that you may prove what is the good and acceptable and perfect will of God. – Romans 12:2 NKJV

    1 Peter 2 verses 9-10 (3rd segment)

    Peter identifies the church as a “chosen people, royal priesthood, holy nation, God’s special possession,” called out of darkness into God’s marvelous light. 

    This means that, as the song Amazing Grace so eloquently points out: “once we were lost but now we’re found, were blind but now we see.”

    In the OT, God says that those who did not know Him (Gentiles) would come to know Him, those who were “not my people” (unbelievers) would become known as “my people,” and I will be their God. 

    God is both a God of “inclusion” and of “exclusion.”

    When we did not know God, we were not recipients of His mercy; now, in Christ, we walk in fellowship with the Lord, and we do receive His mercy.

    1 Peter 2 verses 11-12 (4th segment)

    This passage calls us to recognize that we are to be *salt and light* to the world – that most of the world is populated by unbelievers. With our new identity in Christ as Christ followers, we are *called* by God to live honorable lives, reflecting God’s glory through good deeds. 

    Those good deeds should be delivered in love, in compassion, in humility, in good humor, in grace – not begrudgingly and not condescendingly.

    That means we should not consider ourselves somehow *better* than someone else. We are *forgiven,* not *perfect*. We are simply doing our jobs as faithful servants. We are just doing what God expects of us.

    In short, we are to *be Jesus* to the people we meet. We might be the only representative of Jesus many of them have seen in a long time or ever will see.

    1 Peter 2 verses 13-20 (5th segment)

    Honor everyone. Love the brotherhood (of believers). Honor the emperor. We are to be obedient to government, pay our taxes, obey the laws, educate ourselves before voting, recognize the rights of others to express themselves, and obey traffic laws.

    God instituted civil government for our sakes, to maintain order and punish the unruly. We are called to respect our leaders as long as they govern wisely.

    Unfortunately, most of them do not, and most countries are led by unelected strong men. Even our own leaders often veer from God’s wisdom. We are to pray for their hearts and minds, to follow the Lord’s will.

    As such, we also are called to speak into the culture. As Christians, our voices should be loud whenever our leaders take us down the wrong road.

    Now, there are some Christians who believe we should be silent about temporal affairs, focusing solely on spiritual matters. They believe the temporal – earthly matters – are distasteful and beneath them. We might call that the *monastery* view.

    I disagree. Notice, I said “I.” My view. I am part of the Christian tradition that believes we should lead by our actions and speak into the culture, as well. Maybe we’ll call that the *involved* view.

    We ought to call out the abortionists, the proponents of homosexuality, the transgenderism, and other atrocities that mar our current culture. Our forebears in the pulpit and the church members called out slavery, as the evil it was. 

    Slavery still is evil. We have 300,000 unclaimed migrant children that have poured into our country in recent years, and we have no idea where they are. The church, led by the pulpit, should not remain quiet. 

    The Lord says we are to shine a light into the dark world. How do we obey Him if we remain silent in the face of evil?

    The Rev. Franklin Graham says we should pray for our country’s leaders at all levels of government – national, state, and local – as well as school boards and committees, so that we will be governed by men and women of deep faith, so those functions are not dominated by unbelievers.

    1 Peter 2 verses 21-25 (6th segment)

    Peter continues his reference to Jesus Christ as a model for our behavior. The apostle described the Lord’s suffering not as a defeat for Him personally nor for the church and Christ’s mission but as a success.

    A success. Let that linger a bit. Christ’s suffering for our sake was a success. It fulfilled the Father’s goal of providing a way for sinful man to enjoy fellowship with His creator. 

    Jesus was born in human form and lived among us to become the perfect sacrifice for our sins. He came to die on the cross. Had we not sinned and strayed from God’s will for our lives, there would have been no need for Him to suffer and die.

    We caused the reason for Jesus to visit Earth in human form. 

    CLOSING WORDS

    Since we are chosen by God to be His possession, shouldn’t we be willing, also – eager, even – to fulfill (obey) His call on our lives to (1) believe in Him for our salvation and then (2) tell others about it. 

    We do not need to be knowledgeable about the Bible, just be prepared to give a short testimony of how God has changed our lives. 

    (FOR EXAMPLE: I used to have a problem with alcohol; now I’m sober. I used to have anger issues. I’m more patient now. I used to chase everything in a skirt [or flirt with every man], but now I’m focused on my wife/husband or special loved one. I used to cuss without blushing; now I’m more encouraging.)

    That’s it. Then be ready to say, when prompted, “This is what God has done for me, and He can do it for you, too.”

    CONCLUSION: We should pray for:

    Then, you’re done!

    Let the Holy Spirit do the heavy lifting.

    PRAYER

    LORD GOD, we thank You for Your grace and mercy. Please forgive us when we fail to follow Your lead, when we do not act like a people chosen by God to be salt and light. Strengthen us, O Lord, to be “Jesus” to a world hungry for answers — answers that only You can give. We honor You; we praise You; we worship You. AMEN

  • 1 PETER 1 – A Message of Hope for a Discouraged People


    CHRISTIAN MESSAGE

    By WARD PIMLEY

    Pastor, Journalist, Author


    • Do you ever think about the promises God has made to us about an eternal kingdom in Heaven? 
    • Do you ever wonder what it takes to qualify, to pass the *entry* test, to get into Heaven? 
    • Do you ever worry that your salvation is not secure, that when you prayed the Sinner’s Prayer, God wasn’t listening, or if He was, you could *backslide* and lose His favor? 
    • If your answer to any of those questions is “yes,” or even if you’re not sure what your answer is, then today’s message is for you. 
    • Fasten your pew belts, church. We’re about to take a ride into the most important promise God makes in the Bible – our salvation and its security. 

    Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ. In God’s great mercy, He has caused us to be born again into a living hope, because Jesus Christ rose from the dead. – 1 Peter 1:3 NCV


    • How about asking Sarah what it was like to have a baby at the age of 90? 
    • Or maybe ask Isaac what he was thinking when Father Abraham tied him to the offering pile, just before he heard the sacrificial lamb’s bleating? 
    • Maybe you want to peer into David’s heart when he realized Bathsheba was pregnant and he had her husband killed in war? 
    • Would you like a trip to the Lion’s Den with Daniel or being dumped into a vat of boiling oil with John, or face your own execution, like Paul and James, the half-brother of Jesus, or John’s brother James, the first apostle martyred. Or Peter and Andrew, also martyred. 
    • Maybe, like me, you long to talk with those who come to us from the future, who saw the completion of things we saw started, or who saw the development of new technologies that made our current knowledge seem so primitive. 

    WE’LL SEE GOD FACE-TO-FACE!

    MY RESIDENCE 

    2 Corinthian 5:17 says, “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old is past; behold the new has come.” 

    • God planned long ago to choose you by making you his holy people, which is the Spirit’s work. God wanted you to obey him and to be made clean by the blood of the death of Jesus Christ. Grace and peace be yours more and more.  – 1 Peter 1:2 NCV
    • There are many rooms in my Father’s house. I would not tell you this, unless it were true. I am going there to prepare a place for each of you. After I have done this, I will come back and take you with me. Then we will be together.  – John 14:2-3 CEV 
    • Do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. – Ephesians 4:30 NASB 
    • He has also put His seal on us and given us the Spirit in our hearts as a down payment. – 2 Corinthians 1:22 CSB 
    • And this is the testimony: God has given us eternal life, and this life is in his Son. Whoever has the Son has life; whoever does not have the Son of God does not have life. – 1 John 5:11-12 NIV 

    MORE TO THE STORY

     CLOSING WORDS

  • FINDING SPIRITUAL STRENGTH: Lessons Drawn From 1 Peter 1


    Christian Message

    By WARD PIMLEY

    Pastor, Journalist, Author


    1 Peter 1 is a message of hope.

    God used the life witness of the Apostle Peter, and his words in this letter, to provide encouragement to First Century Christians, who were facing torture, beatings, ostracism, and even death for practicing their faith.

    God is using the same words to encourage believers in the Twenty-First Century to keep us faithful as we journey through our own burdens.

    We do not need to be defeated by our cares, pains, worries, disappointments, or discouragement.


    God

    FIRST POINT: Heaven Awaits

    “Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ. In God’s great mercy, He has caused us to be born again into a living hope, because Jesus Christ rose from the dead. – 1 Peter 1:3 NCV

    LESSON: We also face trials and tribulations, but “better days” await us; if not here, then in Heaven.

    “In this you greatly rejoice, though now for a little while, if need be, you have been grieved by various trials … yet believing, you rejoice with joy inexpressible and full of glory.” – 1 Peter 1:8 BSB

    LESSON: We rejoice through our troubles. For a short time, if necessary, we may suffer grief, but God is with us, giving us hope. The Bible says our trials, as we go through them successfully, make us stronger in our faith.

    THIRD POINT: Our Time

    “Though you have not seen Him, you love Him; and though you do not see Him now, you believe in Him … now that you are receiving the goal of your faith, the salvation of your souls.” – 1 Peter 1:8a-9 BSB

    The Son of Man

    – The Son of God

    – The Messiah

    – Our Redeemer

    – Our Savior.

    LESSON: The Lord has made His presence known through His creation; that creation not only includes the universe, but all life, including us! We are His creation.

    FOURTH POINT: Always Relevant

    “Since you have purified your souls in obeying the truth through the Spirit in sincere love of the brethren, love one another fervently with a pure heart, having been born again, not of corruptible seed but incorruptible, through the word of God which lives and abides forever, because ‘All flesh is as grass, And all the glory of man as the flower of the grass. The grass withers, And its flower falls away, But the word of the Lord endures forever.’ Now this is the word which by the gospel was preached to you.” – 1 Peter 1:22-25 NKJV

    FIFTH POINT: Holy Trinity

    “Peter, an apostle of Jesus Christ: To those chosen, living as exiles dispersed abroad … according to the foreknowledge of God the Father, through the sanctifying work of the Spirit, to be obedient and to be sprinkled with the blood of Jesus Christ. May grace and peace be multiplied to you.” – 1 Peter 1:1-2 CSB

    1. Foreknowledge of God the Father,
    2. Sanctifying work of the [Holy] Spirit,
    3. Sprinkled with the blood of Jesus Christ.

    Together, the Three-in-One God:

    1. Knows us
    2. Grows us
    3. Forgives us
    4. Prepares us — for eternity with Him.

    LESSON: We are a chosen people, and those of us who have come to believe God is who He says He is, and that His promises are solid, are promised eternal life. You can bet your life on that – your eternal life.

    God used this letter of the Apostle Peter to give encouragement to First Century believers, who faced torture and death.

    God uses those same words to encourage Twenty First Century believers through our life trials.

    Our study of 1 Peter 1 shows us that:

    • God promises us better days ahead (Heaven)
    • We should keep our focus not on ourselves but on our Lord
    • We are blessed to believe Him even though we have not seen Him
    • We can rest confidently in God’s promises
    • Why? Because His Word is eternal, universal, and relevant to the time … and will remain eternal, universal, and relevant right up until the day Jesus returns.

    Believe it … and be blessed.