- Psalm 141:3 (NKJV): “Set a guard, O LORD, over my mouth; Keep watch over the door of my lips.”
- James 3:8 (NASB): “But no one can tame the tongue; it is a restless evil and full of deadly poison.”
MY LIFELONG STRUGGLE
WATCHING MY TONGUE is a life-long struggle.
Early in my life, I said whatever I wanted to, as bluntly as I knew how, disregarding any consequences.
Yes, I paid a price for loose lips, although, at the time, I don’t recall ever seeing a direct correlation between my actions and the resulting consequences. I was not a Christian then, so I did not have the Bible’s wisdom to guide and correct me.
To the extent that I did recognize my own shortcomings, I must have simply shrugged my shoulders and toughened my skin.
That has changed.
God has changed me.
ENTER THE HOLY SPIRIT
IN NOVEMBER 2010, — 10 years ago this month — led by the Holy Spirit, I surrendered my life to Almighty God.
He placed it upon my heart to watch my tongue, that my very words belonged to Him, and I was to begin seeing myself as “salt and light” to a sin-filled world.
Another way of stating it is that I was blessed by God to be a blessing to others.
There’s no way I could accomplish that role without being more careful about what I said and how I said it.
Jesus even reminded us of that in Matthew 12:36 (ESV):
“I tell you, on the day of judgment people will give account for every careless word they speak.”
Although the Lord didn’t add these words, He could have: “That means you … and it means You … and it means YOU!”
ENTER A CHRISTIAN WOMAN
TWO YEARS AFTER coming to faith, the Lord brought a Christian woman into my life, and we married 2 1/2 years later.
She is my true *ezer kenegdo,* chastising me when I make judgmental comments or hurtful criticisms or just flat-out plain and stupid foolishness. Unfortunately, she’s been kept busy in that role. I must be a slow learner.
The difference in me now is that I care.
I want to do better.
I am grieved whenever I grieve the Holy Spirit;
Ephesians 4:30 (NIV): “And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, with whom you were sealed for the day of redemption.”
I am grieved whenever I grieve my wife.
1 Peter 3:7 (NASB): “You husbands in the same way, live with your wives in an understanding way, as with someone weaker, since she is a woman; and show her honor as a fellow heir of the grace of life, so that your prayers will not be hindered.”
God is serious about this tongue business.
ENTER GOD’S GRACE
THE GOD OF MERCY AND GRACE loves me, as He loves each and every one of His children. He chastises me when He needs to, and He forgives me (thankfully!) whenever I repent.
In gratitude and joy, I should and must become more diligent in watching my speech.
The angels are watching, other men and women are watching, and my Lord and Savior is watching.
Here are just three reminders:
- “For the eyes of the LORD run to and fro throughout the whole earth, to show Himself strong on behalf of those whose heart is loyal to Him.” — 2 Chronicles 16:9 (NKJV)
- ”Nothing in all creation is hidden from God’s sight. Everything is uncovered and laid bare before the eyes of him to whom we must give account.” — Hebrews 4:13 (NIV)
- ”The eyes of the LORD are everywhere, observing the wicked and the good.” — Proverbs 15:3 (CSB)
GOD, IN HIS MERCY AND GRACE, saved me from destruction through the life blood of His Son.
In turn, giving thanks to Him, I must be determined, I am determined, and with His help and guidance, I will be determined to watch my tongue.
It pains me to realize I will slip up, but as a child of God, I will be rebuked by the Holy Spirit, and through repentance, restored to fellowship with the eternal and loving God.
“LET THE WORDS OF MY MOUTH AND THE MEDITATION OF MY HEART BE ACCEPTABLE IN YOUR SIGHT, O LORD, MY ROCK AND MY REDEEMER.” — PSALM 19:14 (ESV)
THANK YOU, LORD JESUS, that You have called me from out of the darkness into the light, that You have plucked me up from the garbage of my sin-filled life and restored my soul. Now, O Lord, continue Your work in me until completion that I may be a blessing to others as You have blessed me. O Lord, help me guard my tongue … and my thoughts. Thank You, Lord Jesus! In Your holy and majestic name I lift this prayer … we lift this prayer … as one. AMEN